Whispers in April

"如果有人对你有过帮助，却又伤害过你，你需要只看一面，而忽视另一面——只需要想到好的一面"

在一種把選擇當作唯一的價值，且欲望難以滿足的文化中，離婚協議和商討買一輛二手車有事麽區別？

這個就是自由市場的邏輯思考，把所有的關係都變成消費品，這在自由市場所支配的社會中、或日常生活中隨時可見。

False Dawn / John Gray 1998

周末下班回家，行至紅磡車站的天橋上，先後遇到兩位邊走邊唱、放聲高歌的男子。最先遇到的是位中年背包男，帶點廣東口音豪放地唱"誰娶了多愁善感的你，誰安慰愛哭的你。誰把你的長髮盤起，誰給你做了嫁衣。" 等我超過他時，他恰好唱完一支，緊接著意猶未盡，唱起[同一首歌]。。。忍住不笑，我加快了腳步走開，這時從後面趕上了另一個年輕男子，也是邊走邊唱，唱的是一支不熟悉的粵語歌。。。我當時就想，今兒這是怎麽了？大家都這麽High
晚上收到若干朋友的問候短信。次日一大早又收到jm的問候。很溫暖的感覺。謝謝。

Change for better, not worse!
It's a part of the email to my friend Lisa. It's also what I learned and experienced in last months.

Hi Lisa,

My father returned to Shanghai this afternoon by train. He stayed here for about one month and was eager to go back home since he was distracted by someone in Shanghai :D
Two months ago, he knew a lady introduced by his friends. They felt comfortable to each other and my father is considering her as his partner for the rest of life. I haven't accepted the fact that my father really needs a close partner to take care of him for the rest of life until this Mother's Day (the 8th of May). A  good friend of mine had a long talk with me that day. He made me realize that I was so selfish to my father in the past two years. I used to be very unhappy and opposed when I knew my father's intention to find a partner... I just kept asking my father why and telling him he can overcome living alone or come to live with me in HK....My friend's experience made me know the difference of the care from daughter and the care from a partner. After I changed my mind and accept the thing, all my unhappiness about my father suddenly disappeared:P It's amazing! I was so silly when I was insisting on my own opinions while neglecting my father's needs.